Working with me feels like this….
The Process
Step 1: We Get to Know Each Other
We'll meet (hooray!) whenever suits you best, either as a couple or solo on zoom. I’ll talk you through the process, my service and style and what you’re looking for in a celebrant. Once booked, we’ll meet in person and dive into what makes your love story tick. From ceremony vibes to special memories, I’ll tailor your service to perfection. Flexibility is my middle name, so let's make your dreams come true!
Oh, and heads up: at our first powwow we'll also tackle some essential legal forms, like the Notice of Intended Marriage…so…
Don't forget to bring along:
Original Birth Certificates or Passports and Driver Licence
Original Divorce Certificate or Death Certificate (if applicable)
Translated versions if your documents aren't in English
Step 2: I Write Your Ceremony (And You Get It Early)
I'll craft your ceremony from scratch, no templates, no cookie-cutter scripts. You'll get the outline weeks before your wedding so you can read it, tweak it, and feel confident about what I'm saying.
Step 3: I Practice For a Week
I rehearse your ceremony every single day for a week before your wedding. I'm learning the rhythm, nailing the timing, and making sure every word lands exactly right.
Step 4: On the Day, I Bring It to Life
I'll arrive 1 hour early to set up, touch base with everyone, and ensure smooth sailing. I'll read the room, adjust the energy, and deliver a ceremony that feels effortless. Whether that means landing a joke, pausing for emotion, or improvising when a boat honks in the background.
Step 5: Your Guests Will Rave
Not because of me, but because your ceremony felt so perfectly, authentically YOU.
Step 6: Making It Official
After the ceremony, I'll handle all the paperwork and send it off to the NSW Registry of Births, Deaths, and Marriages. In a few weeks, your official marriage certificate will arrive in the mail – the key to changing your name and starting your happily ever after.
FAQs
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How long does a ceremony take?
Usually takes about 20-30 minutes, including signing the papers but it does depend on the type of ceremony you choose.
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What is your vibe?
My personality is naturally warm, bubbly and a tad cheeky, but my vibe is whatever you want it to be! Relaxed and fun! High energy and in party mode! You set the vibe, I set the tone.
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What happens if you get sick on my wedding day?
Gosh this is my worst nightmare, but it has happened! Luckily I am in a wonderful network of celebrants and can have a replacement sorted straight away and paperwork transferred.
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Do you have to have anything religious in the ceremony if we're not religious?
Most of my ceremonies are non-religious. I create ceremonies that reflect YOUR beliefs and values, whether that's spiritual, secular, or somewhere in between.
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Can we get married tomorrow?
Ordinarily no. You are required to notify your celebrant (ME!) at least 1 month before the date of your intended marriage. It is, however, possible to shorten this minimum time if special circumstances set out in the regulations are met. More on this here.
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How can I change my name after the wedding?
If you don’t like the idea of wasting newlywed days on hold, researching and filling in forms then consider using a name change kit. Simply check off the companies to notify and Easy Name Change will send you a custom pack of forms. Just attach your marriage certificate and send!
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Do you charge for travel?
Only if the venue is outside a 50km radius from my house.
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How do you write our ceremony?
I have a questionnaire that captures all the relevant information that I need in order to write a tailored ceremony.
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Are their additional costs?
No - I quote for everything. I will include travel costs if required and the BDM registration of your marriage.
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What areas do you cover?
I'm based in Sydney and regularly work across Sydney Metro, the Blue Mountains, Hunter Valley, and the South Coast. If your venue is outside these areas, I'm happy to travel—just get in touch and we'll work it out!
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Do you offer same-sex ceremonies?
Absolutely. I've had the honour of marrying couples across the spectrum: same-sex, young, older, first marriages, second marriages. Love is love, and I'm here for all of it.
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Can we include cultural or religious rituals?
Yes! I love incorporating cultural rituals, family traditions, and meaningful customs into ceremonies. Whether it's a hand fasting, ring warming, breaking of the glass, or something unique to your heritage, let's make it happen.